Thursday, September 25, 2014

Faith and Conflict Experience

After 18 months of planning and hard work, the 2014 Bosnian Faith and Conflict experience was held successfully in Banja Luka and Sarajevo, with a day trip to Srebrenica. There were just over 30 participants from 15 different nations, mostly working with YWAM, but also some others came along for the ride as well. And what a ride it was...
This is a conference that usually happens in Northern Ireland, run by YWAM Northern Ireland and I attended one of the Northern Ireland versions of the conference last year in May (read more here). The main speaker was Jonny Clark, leader of YWAM Ireland, and it really was great to have input from him and his team from YWAM Ireland.

We were in lectures some of the time, but also heard from local people, both in Banja Luka and in Sarajevo. Below is one of my friends, Ceca, who works with a local NGO, sharing on the different things they do in the area of reconciliation: (we were using the nearly finished Church building in Banja Luka - doesn't it look amazing!!! I can't wait until it is completely finished and we can really start using it!)
But it wasn't inside all of the time - both in Banja Luka and in Sarajevo we took a tour of the city. I did the Banja Luka tour, and below is Aida (in blue) doing the tour in Sarajevo: She did a fantastic job! Wrangling 30 people plus children is not easy!!
Below is most of the group in front of the library in Sarajevo. It really was a great group of people, and I was really sad to say goodbye to them all...
 As I said, we had a great tour in Sarajevo and here is Jonny at the place where 100 years ago Archduke Franz Ferdinand was assassinated, and this led directly to the start of WWI:
And no tour of Sarajevo would be complete without cevapi with kajmak  :) (and in fact, the food was also a highlight - we had local ladies who did most of the cooking, and it was great and mostly local recipes, meaning they got to experience local homemade food that way! And everyone really enjoyed the food!)
We also had a series of workshops with local believers in Sarajevo - here is Jonny speaking with Pastor Sasa doing the translating. Although we could have had more people, it was still great for those that did attend.
On the last day we took the long drive (and as we got lost, even longer...) to the memorial to the biggest massacre since WWII in Srebrenica. It was REALLY hard, but I am glad we did it. The memorial is poignant and the tour guide was excellent. He only told me in confidence that he had actually been there the day that men and boys as young as 13,14 were separated out, and only through some miracle did they think he was took young (even though he was also 13) and his life was spared...
It is also good to remember that many people were killed in those days by Serbs, but so were many Serbs were killed before that in the surrounding areas by Muslims. War is never clear cut and easy to understand... with one side in the right and one side in the wrong: but one thing is clear: everyone suffers. And everyone needs to learn how to get passed it and forgive... Reconciliation is only possible if both sides forgive and learn to move forward together again: otherwise it is not reconciliation.

All in all, I think it was an amazing experience for everyone involved, and we are already talking about having it again in two years time! It was hard work for me as I did all the logistics for 30 people in two cities, but I also think it was worth it as not only did we all learn more about reconciliation, but they all got a taste for Bosnia Herzegovina, and who knows, maybe they will be back here one day!!

It was an extremely exciting ride, and one that I will gladly do again: so...  see you in 2016??


Victor said...

I would actually love to see some peace work built into it (on the preventative side) as I'm seeing all this with IS in Iraq and Syria. It's just the same things happening over and over again. I suppose peace is reconciliation work. It's just so hard to do and really occupies my mind a lot these days.

Belinda Chaplin said...

Yes, peace work is part of reconciliation - one of the things we looked at during the workshop was John Paul Lederach's model of reconciliation and it has 4 components: Peace, Mercy, Justice and Truth, and there will be no real reconciliation without all 4 components... it is a good theory, but oh so difficult to enact in practice!

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